How to Help Children Get Organized
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Helping children get organized can be one of the most rewarding experiences—especially when you meet them where they are.
Recently, I had the joy of working with two sisters, ages eight and eleven, to organize their shared Jack and Jill bedrooms and bathroom. One of the girls was a natural minimalist—super tidy and decisive about what she wanted to keep. The other was deeply sentimental, with a strong attachment to things that held meaning for her, even if they hadn’t been used in years.
Both personalities, and organizing styles are completely valid. It is so important to honor each person’s preferences and needs, ESPECIALLY if they are children. This is a wonderful opportunity to teach them that organizing is safe, fun and easy!
The process takes strategy, support, and a whole lot of compassion. It is a perfect reminder that professional organizing with kids isn’t just about bins and labels—it’s about helping them feel seen, empowered, and in control of their space.
Here are three key steps I always use when organizing with children:
1. Understand Child Development and Individual Needs
Every child is different. Their age, personality, and developmental stage all affect what kind of organizing systems will work best. Some kids thrive with structure and checklists, while others respond better to visual cues or flexible routines.
The more we understand their unique needs, the more successful—and stress-free—the organizing process becomes.
2. Learn Their Organizing Style
Just like adults, kids have their own organizing styles. One of my favorite tools is the Clutterbug quiz by Cassandra Aarssen. It’s a free, fun way to identify whether someone is a “Ladybug,” “Cricket,” “Butterfly,” or “Bee.” This helps start the conversation and lets kids know it’s okay to organize differently than their siblings—or even their parents!
Recognizing and honoring a child’s organizing style also boosts their confidence and encourages them to take ownership of their space.
3. Clarify How Much Space is Available
Every home is different, and knowing your space limitations is essential. Some families have open shelving and display areas, while others prefer hidden storage solutions. And parents need to be clear about what can be stored in each area and how much volume is allowed.
I always work with both kids and parents to find the right balance. If a child has more treasures than available space allows, we create custom storage systems that let them keep what matters—neatly stored and easily accessible.
Helping kids get organized isn’t about forcing them into a one-size-fits-all system. It’s about creating an environment where they feel capable, respected, and supported. Whether they’re naturally tidy or still finding their way, every child can learn to maintain a space that truly works for them.
And when that happens? It’s pure magic.
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Pinky Jackson is an Organizing Expert and Decluttering Specialist. She and her team organize homes & small businesses in Louisville, KY. For more information about Pinky’s pricing & services or to schedule your free assessment, go topinkyjackson.com
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